Sunday, December 8, 2013

Love and Logic

LOVE AND LOGIC

Product endorsement time:
The book is called Parenting With Love and Logicby Foster Cline, M.D. and Jim Fay (Updated and Expanded Edition, 2006, NavPress, Colorado Springs, CO).
I have been facilitating a video teaching series based on this book at Rescue The Children for several (8-week) sessions now, and each time I teach it, the truths sink a little deeper into my heart and make their way into my actions.
The heart of the program is laughably simple: Allow children to learn from their own mistakes, while we parents offer empathy, support and love, but not rescue.
The principles are not new. They are really God’s principles for teaching us. But they are presented with humor, wisdom, good illustrations and an easy learning style.
Testimonial: Two years ago, I was tied up in knots when Paul was applying for university admission and scholarships. I felt the weight of responsibility on my own shoulders. Two short years later, both Paul and Andrew are again applying for university admission and scholarships (Paul has completed the honors program at Fresno City College and Andrew is graduating high school). This time around, I am here as an advisor, but it is not my responsibility to get anyone else’s work done for them, or even to nag them to do it. I can be cheerful, relaxed and ever-so-empathetic about the difficulties of the application process, without turning into my application process!
The Love and Logic Institute has been around for a number of years and there are a variety of books out there, addressing parenting and teaching issues for various age groups. If you deal with children or young people at any level, I highly recommend The Love and Logic Way!

--Posted by Mama O.

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